Big Girl Rant

Did you know that there really is people that have a fat phobia? They think being fat is the worst thing that could happen to a person.

Ok, so I get that being 600 pounds is unhealthy, but so is being 90 pounds.

Who wrote the rule book that we all have to be one size.

I started gaining weight in 5th grade. I was just like every other kid, full of energy and very active. I didn’t eat much either. Can you tell me at that young age, I did anything wrong and chose to be fat??

I honestly believe God made us all shape and sizes for a reason.

Does that mean we should gorge out and eat whole pizzas?? No! But I can tell you it seems I can breathe air and gain weight, so who are they to judge me because of my weight.

Can being overweight be unhealthy? Sure, but can you tell me skinny people are completely healthy?

I know big people with high blood pressure and skinny people with high blood pressure.

Everyone is so fast to blame weight on everything, when you can’t tell me skinny people never get the same illness.

I recently found out one of my big girl inspirations, was thinking about weight loss surgery. Talk about a slap in the face. She inspired me to be happy as a big girl and to love my body and now she wants to change her body!

It starts making me think “is everybody right about being fat?” ” should fat people not exist?” “Should we be extinct?”

Well my answer is No! We are who we are meant to be! I can diet, lose a few pounds, but I will always be chunky.

I can go to the extreme to have weight loss surgery, but if God wants me to be a plus size woman, that weight is coming back.

I know all the fat phobia people will be yelling “your unhealthy.” Ok, how healthy are you?? Worry about you boo boo!

Stop the fat shaming and worry about yourself! We are not hurting anybody by existing.

So in conclusion, don’t let anybody tell you what your body should look like. Don’t let fat haters, make you hate yourself.

We are not disgusting creatures, we are beautiful!


My Top 6 Plus Size Swimsuits

Summer is here and it is time to get ready for all those water activities. Putting on that swimsuit can add some extra anxiety to us bigger girls. Maybe we put on some extra weight during the winter and it is riding up in places you would rather it not ride up, or in my case sometimes the dang thing just won’t go over my big butt anymore. In any case, it might be time to get a new swimsuit.

I know swimsuit shopping can be such a hassle. I never see anything in the store that covers what I want to be covered. The cute swimsuits are for the skinny girls and we get left with ugly prints or just plain ugly designs.

I have found that online shopping is the way to go for finding a suitable swimsuit. I know that can be scary, not getting to see it in person, but always read the reviews to see if they are true to size and are of good material.

I have found some awesome plus size swimsuits on Amazon, I have been happy with every swimsuit I have ordered. Here are 6 of my favorite plus size swimsuits on Amazon. They all have tummy control and hide those unwanted body parts we do not want showing while we bask in the sun. If you see one you like just hit the link!

Halter Tankini Swimdress


Tummy Control Tankini Set


Body Shaping One Piece


Sexy Halter 2 Piece

Plus Size Cutout Swimdress

Plus Size Retro Tummy Control Swimdress

I hope you check out these great Plus Size Swimwear!

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