When you have a child in a wheelchair or if you yourself are in a wheelchair, you notice accessibility problems in OUR World.
Most people never notice these problematic situations, unless you have experienced such problems. I know that I never noticed accessibility problems until I had a special needs child.
In a perfect world, everything would be accessible for these amazing people, people that have to face struggles everyday. Why should they have to struggle with accessibility.
My dream would be that every business, house builder, and individuals in the community would consider people with disabilities and make every place accessible.
Here are a few of My Accessibility Dreams.
Every business should have ramps for wheelchairs. When Ciara is in her power chair, there is no way to lift it over a curb, it is extremely heavy.
You would think every place of business would have ramps, but we have ran into obstacles at places such as Churches and older buildings.
I wish every place would have automatic doors or a button to push that allows the doors to open and stay open long enough for a person in a wheelchair to get into building.
Ciara is fortunate enough to have me accompany her to open all doors for her, but I can’t imagine how hard it is for independent people in wheelchairs to open the door and to maneuver into the building. People are not always nice enough to open doors for people with disabilities, and automatic doors give people with disabilities the freedom to be independent.
More Accessible Parking
So I know everywhere we go has accessible parking, but sometimes there is only 2 or 3 spots which makes parking hard for people in wheelchairs.
We have a van with a side wheelchair lift, which requires us to park in wheelchair van accessible spots, the spots with lines on the side, to be able to lower the lift and safely unload a person in a wheelchair.
If there were more van accessible spots, that would make life so much easier for people who have to depend on those spots.
Save Handicap Parking for the Handicapped.
Now, I know a lot of people have disabilities without being in a wheelchair and depend on the accessible parking, but if you don’t require a wheelchair, please save the van accessible parking spots for people in wheelchairs.
If you are not disabled, please don’t take the accessible spots, if I can’t find a spot to park to unload Ciara it leads to us either parking way out in the parking lot so that nobody parks next to us, so I can lower the lift to unload her. Or if that’s not an option, sometimes we just have to leave that place off business.
Think About Your Guest in Wheelchairs
This is one of those you don’t think about it unless you have been, there kind of requests.
If you are planning a big event, think about your guests that require a wheelchair. Make sure there is spots open for a wheelchair to maneuver and park.
There has been so many times we attended weddings where Ciara literally had to sit in the aisle, that the bride walks down, because there was no place to park her chair other than the aisle.
I know sometimes that’s impossible to do, especially places that have bench seats, but if there is a way to remove a chair for a wheelchair to be placed, they would greatly appreciate it.
Adult Changing Tables and Accessible Bathrooms
Most places have that one stall that is accessible. It’s bigger and has bars installed. It would be nice if there was more than one accessible bathroom but a changing table for adults and children would be wonderful.
There are times I need to change Ciara’s pull up while we are out and I have to do it from her chair. If you have never changed a pull up from a wheelchair, it is challenging for sure.
Cooks Children’s Hospital has a bathroom with a big changing table, with controls so you can lift it and lower it, which is extremely helpful for transferring. But why only have them in hospitals, why not have them in stores and doctors offices as well.
In a perfect world, every place of business would have seating for wheelchairs.
Restaurants are terrible about not having wheelchair seating. We remove a chair for her wheelchair to fit but there is never enough room. We are always cramped and feel overcrowded.
Also, why do theaters always have one wheelchair spot right in front of the screen?? We break our necks looking up at the screen, it is not a comfortable experience. I have found only one theater that has a wheelchair lift to take people to their seat. It was wonderful! The Hippodrome in Waco is by far our favorite place to watch a movie.
If you ever had to tell your child “No, you can’t do that because it’s not wheelchair friendly” you know the heartbreak you feel. Having to tell your child they can’t do something because of accessibility. We tell our kids they can do anything, but then you have to explain to them they can’t do it. That’s the worst feeling in the World.
Now, I know not every amusement park, Waterpark or Parks in general can have everything wheelchair accessible, but why not have some things that people in wheelchairs can enjoy.
One of the many reasons I love Morgan’s wonderland in San Antonio, is that everything in the park is accessible, they even have a Waterpark and photo props that a wheelchair can go behind. Sea world was also surpringly accessible.
These are just a few of the struggles people in wheelchairs face, the list could go on and on.
We face struggles everyday with accessibility, if more people put themselves in the shoes of a handicapped individual, we could make this world accessible!